hmm good topic. to be a mother or not to be a mother. to grow up a kid is soo long period and you must give lots of thing from your life, your dreams. Sometimes a little thing of life like tooth brush or have a shower can be crisis
(( You put your own life in the second plan. ( exc my phd thesis) But all of this difficulty "mother" is the best adjective you ever owned in life. I think child is hope, future and happness. In our culture women have lots of mission but we are not alone while having a child. Because of this my husband and ı arguee. He generally help me but it isnt enought. If men help women there will not handicaps like today. Have you got a child?