Nişan nişan bitti! lütfen yardım! ben yabanciyim!

leylass .!.:

if a man wanna to break up the engagement or the woman, it's not a rule..
firstly say to us:
you dont love him anymore?
he doesnt mind you?
or your love finished?
whatever the problem is,both of you together have to decide on go on your relationship or go to the end for me .
It s not about Turkish traditions , its about you...

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lobita .!.:

thank you so much for replying!

I love him so much! and he says he loves me too! but we have been having small discussions lately (maybe distance gets everything worse! I'm in my country and was planning to move to turkey by the end of the year). he found a new job recently and got distant, I asked what was going on? he said he is tired of fighing, of our discussions... he sounded depressed, I dont know if his family had influence... it seems that we will break up. he hasnt contacted me 2 weeks after our last talk.

I dont want to end, but also I cant obligate someone to marry me if he doesnt want to, even I love him a lot!

do not think he is a turkish guy who plays with foreigners, like there are many! no, he was serious in 4 years, ALL his family and friends know me, they love me, they always ask about me, all the time asking when were we going to get marry!

but life changes I think, maybe he thought I was not the woman for him to marry?

how do turks handle this?

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